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Bucko x OG Mike x Robskiii: Bros, Boundaries, and Broken Trust
Loyalty, trust, and the unspoken rules of male friendship take center stage in this raw and unfiltered episode. When is it acceptable to date a friend's ex? Where's the line between respecting boundaries and controlling another person's actions? The crew dives deep into these questions with surprising vulnerability and thoughtfulness.
Rob Ski shares a powerful personal story that highlights how childhood trauma can shape adulthood, while the entire group explores why men often struggle to communicate their feelings and expectations in friendships. The conversation reveals a universal truth: actions speak louder than words when it comes to loyalty, and many people aren't who they present themselves to be.
Through listener questions and personal anecdotes, we examine setting boundaries, navigating betrayal, and the delicate process of ending friendships as adults. Rather than dramatic confrontations, the guys suggest that friendship endings often happen through gradual distancing - shifting someone from an "everyday" to a "holiday" friend.
This episode offers remarkable insights about male friendship, communication, and accountability. Whether you're questioning a friend's loyalty or trying to understand the unwritten rules of your social circle, you'll find valuable perspectives on distinguishing true friends from those who simply claim the title.
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Yo, yo yo what's going on. It's your boy DJ Bucko. I got my boy Rob Ski and my boy OG Mike, how we doing fellas.
Speaker 2:What it do. Back at it again, man. It's getting hot outside.
Speaker 1:Well, it's getting warm. It's getting real warm outside. Man, y'all had a good weekend, you know for sure, for sure.
Speaker 2:Good good.
Speaker 1:How we stepping in first man.
Speaker 2:Let's go ahead and get into the good old hot take. You feel me? Hot take, hot take, hot take. So drop it into the hot take. Today I'm going to ask Rob man. Okay, go ahead I want to hear what Rob say. Man, let's get it. Can your friend mess with your old work man? Can he talk to the ex what that look like? Are you line stepping, even trying?
Speaker 1:habitual line steppers are you talking about? Can a homeboy fuck with your ex?
Speaker 2:how does that work?
Speaker 1:like is it a possibility, shit I would say so, I would say yeah to me personally but so is there any expectation you gotta you need to come and ask questions.
Speaker 1:I mean, if it's your homeboy, he should. You know what I'm saying. It should be a conversation. It should be like how you feeling you know what I'm saying. Would y'all like I don't know? Maybe because when I have an ex, like she's a real ex, I ain't trying to talk to this motherfucker like I don't double back so she free you know what I'm saying so if she gonna be fucking anyway, like yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we're not talking like baby mama or something real shit they included too damn, wait a minute, you had it, motherfucker too. Wait a minute, you had it, motherfucker too.
Speaker 2:Wait a minute.
Speaker 1:I ain't cuffing nothing once it's over with. All right. Yeah, chief, free game too. You're going to be fucking somebody.
Speaker 2:Somebody, that's fair.
Speaker 1:So you saying fuck it X man, all them bitches can go, if it ain't the one, fuck. If it ain't the one, fuck it All right. Yeah, that's where I'm at with it. You know what I'm saying. But, like, what's your homeboy, though, but we talking about? So, like, for me, I'm married right now. Right, that's different.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Now we ain't talking that.
Speaker 1:Any of my other exes.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's a sacred thing. You messing with your homeboy ex-wife.
Speaker 1:that's why that means you wanted her the whole time yeah, I'm saying like but we just talking about like somebody you were dating, even if you had kids. Like because that don't mean that y'all was in love or y'all were so amazing, I just because y'all had kids together. You know what I'm saying? True, but she already out, you like she already. You know what I'm saying yeah, yeah. Who the fuck are you?
Speaker 2:to say nah, nigga, I ain't controlling nobody.
Speaker 1:So before I go to Bucko Pussy like that.
Speaker 2:Is it the same if he don't say nothing?
Speaker 1:Then it's different because it's like why would you not say, why would you not? Now you holding secrets, now you looking at me in my face, I'm talking to you every day. You know that you got this going on and you ain't saying that. Yeah, that's, I think, to me where the problem comes in, because, like, why aren't you not saying okay you something saying but it's like hey, my nigga, like I saw so-and-so at the party at the club.
Speaker 1:You know I'm saying with the bam kind of was checking me and I was checking her. Like you know, I'm saying if that, if that happened, what would you know?
Speaker 2:I'm saying like I got the conversation. I'm with that.
Speaker 1:I'm just running that shit bro, like knock that shit down how you feeling hey, knock it down, go get that man so listen, I'm already where I'm, you know.
Speaker 2:I'm saying like you good and happy?
Speaker 1:I don't hold on to females like that. If you an ex, you an ex for a reason, Like we don't fuck with each other for a reason Live your life. I don't control that shit.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 1:Because you ain't got no say so in what I got going on. So you like, fuck it, it don't care what the homeboy do, unless he didn't communicate with you. Because if you're my homeboy for real, like it should be a communication, like I'm interested or she interested or you have some eye contact or whatever the fuck the case.
Speaker 2:I'll take, is it's cool with the conversation? Okay, you can slide, but I need to know if you my homeboy, I respect that?
Speaker 1:Yeah, because other than that, what the fuck is you in my face for? That's real. Okay, I guess for me it's a little different. I guess because if you a homeboy and that's the part I want to clarify with homeboy, this is my, like, this is one of my brothers, it's my dog, like this is my dog yeah, like not no, because there's ain't no associates my brother cool with.
Speaker 1:Yeah so see, can I have you my friendships, like y'all my brothers, y'all my og brothers, and then I got my my, like the guys that were in my wedding, like they were my brothers, that's what somebody in your wedding, yeah, so them guys. So you still talking about wife, though, right, well, no, no, no, we ain't we talking about we, you still talking about wife, though right Well no, no, no. We talking about, we talking about, we talking about.
Speaker 2:Wife ain't on the table, no, we talking about?
Speaker 1:we talking about exes or just a?
Speaker 2:bottom regular woman. No, you can't. Y'all went to school together, you messing this chick, so my homeboy David or my homeboy Doug, like they wouldn't.
Speaker 1:We did it to the point where, even back in the day, we never did that to each other. So for me they would never do that to me, because we never doubled back on each other, even in college I didn't go to college Even with skiers or something like that back in the day, we just wouldn't. Now, and we communicated so well with each other, we never did that with each other. Now I got some regular niggas that ain't like my homeboys, I don't care I. Now I got some regular niggas that ain't like my homeboys, I don't care. I guess I wouldn't care If it's my homeboy. Though we can, we wouldn't. We never dealt Like. David ain't never messed with Nobody I messed with. I ain't never messed with no, he messed with. So we been so cool. Same with Doug, like we always. We ain't never did that. So for me I never had that issue. Yeah, if that did happen, I'd want to know.
Speaker 2:Communicate with me. Do y'all think that thought, that mindset is an exception to the rule? You think most men feel this way.
Speaker 1:I don't know there's a lot of tender ass. There's some cupcake ass things out here as well. There's a lot of tender dick ass. Gotta talk to that that demographic as well I mean like yeah, for me I it could. It could possibly be how I grew up. You know saying like me and my homeboys ran trains, did switcheroo's yeah, swap out. You know, I'm saying your turn different outside I was a different outside. You know I'm saying so it's uh you think this like?
Speaker 2:let say 25, 18 to 25 generation, little softer they.
Speaker 1:Hell, yeah, they soft as hell. It depends All of them not. It's a lot more.
Speaker 2:I think there's some 30s in there too, man. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Maybe some 40s.
Speaker 1:It might, I think, men in general, I feel like A lot of men, what is the concern? What are you concerned about Like? Why would I?
Speaker 2:be mad. I think men be lying. You worried about?
Speaker 1:Maybe she might compare y'all to Like I don't know, what are you, what are you worried?
Speaker 2:about Nah? I think it's the territorial. Once mine, always mine. The pride, the pride, the ego, yeah.
Speaker 1:I've been in that Situation, I guess you could say, where you wanted someone to be only yours. You know I'm saying, but as you get older you understand that shit don't work that way. Life don't work that way. You like men are fucking lulu, sometimes you cheating, you fucking all the bitches and you want her to not fuck nobody that was.
Speaker 2:it was a big tiktok like that. The best man got up and was like pretty much Ray J dude. Like I hit it first, the best man did that. Yeah, the best man did that bro.
Speaker 1:See, that's an enemy.
Speaker 2:He got his ass whooped. That's crazy.
Speaker 1:That's an enemy, though, which is why I said what I said. So that to me is separate. You harbor some ill emotions or feelings towards me. That has nothing to do with the fact that I've moved on and you and her want to date or something like that. Yeah, that's a separate, that's a separate entity, but in my mind I'm going to think you always wanted to bitch.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I know some people man man, I mean just realistically. Man, mom, all right, I mean if just. I mean just realistically. If you date a bad bitch like nobody has blinders on, they saw that she was bad this whole time.
Speaker 2:It's a respect. Yeah, at some point, if I'm your man, though, like we, we really rock she become my sister.
Speaker 1:That's my dog. That's my dog, like you're my dog. We talking about deep relationships.
Speaker 2:Yeah, for sure I get you. You know what I'm saying. That's what I'm about to say. That's where the communication comes in.
Speaker 1:If you felt that way, tell me now.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:You know, don't lie and be like no, I don't give a fuck. Then when I knock her off, now we beefing.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying we got some people back home. Man, one of them did a little time, came back right hand in the house.
Speaker 3:They ain't no, getting married and everything that shit is real life. I'm like that's crazy. It's real life.
Speaker 1:That's a little different that man sat down, but again it goes back to the communication piece Jail call, jail visit, write a letter. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:That's diabolical.
Speaker 1:That's diabolical, that you did it without his knowledge, without him knowing I come home to that? Yeah, that should have been a communication. Man Lava, go back to jail.
Speaker 2:They older than us.
Speaker 1:They older than damn.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah.
Speaker 1:It's still for me like how deep was the relationship you was in love. It's hard to me, it's hard to say like I'm married. This is my wife, this is my soulmate, this is who God meant for me. I've never been happier in my life and then still be mad about an ex Ain't. No way. I can't see that 100%. I can't see it 100%. I haven't had a love that deep enough for me, where I actually care yeah who that bitch is fucking now yeah, you can't I don't if you, if you in your situation for real now, if you ain't in my situation.
Speaker 1:That was the love of your life and you fucked it up then, I understand that, because you really want the bitch back you know I'm saying that makes sense you really want that bitch back. So, yeah, I don't want my nigga fucking her, because I still want that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I ain't never been like that, man, just be honest, man, your feelings can be hurt, you're good, I don't not that one tell not that tell your place, tell your partners I heard I hope one day I get it back type shit Say that.
Speaker 1:That ain't going to happen though you ain't getting it back.
Speaker 2:She gone for the streets, she gone Well the street, better not be on our block.
Speaker 1:Show fucking better, not. But I think also and I want to close with this when it comes to trusting, because I think that's a level of trust that you have to have with your partners and your homeboys my level of trust is and I guess even my homeboys like who I'm saying my brothers if I couldn't trust you around my mom, if I couldn't trust you, I didn't have a son back then. But even now in my mind, if I can't trust you around my kid, then I can't trust you around her. I can't trust you around her. But if I can trust around my mom, if I feel like I can trust you around my mom, my money and her, then I can trust you and I know you got my back and my best interest. But that's how I look at anybody for real, like if we talking about people that you want to bring to your home or anything like that. When it comes to like your homeboy is messing with somebody women back in the day.
Speaker 2:So you've been in that situation where it was your homeboy that you thought was solid and then it turned into a piece of shit.
Speaker 1:Hell yeah, but he wasn't. It was somebody who I thought it was, somebody who I thought was it was after college and I thought I had a college friend and it wasn't. And they did some skee-ball shit and you know, she told me and it is what it is, and he a whole ass. It don't matter, but just understand this, though I learned. I learned, though, that people, they'll tell you they cool with you. They'll tell you they fuck with you. They'll tell you that they got your best friend, they got your back and the whole time, man, they in her dm and and if you ain't got the right person to tell you shit, you'll be looking real crazy. I hear this, motherfucker, and that's the truth, and that's to me, like those situations, tell me how to deal with you. I'm not gonna get mad, I'm not gonna get my feelings like I'm past all of that stage, like I understand how the world work. It's all actions, so I can't really be pressed. You you know what.
Speaker 1:I'm saying so that just tells me how to move and how to act and how to deal and how to handle you going forward, and put you in what box, to put you in what category, to put you in.
Speaker 2:Exactly Actions speak, not your words. Your words should align, and if they don't, that tells me your character don't align.
Speaker 1:So your loyalty tells me what box to put you in? Yeah, go ahead, my nigga, go ahead, knock that shit. I'm not mad. I'm not mad, but I also know where you stand.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you see what I'm saying. Yeah, because with loyalty, bro, she our ex. If you my homeboy, I ain't man.
Speaker 1:Why would you even want to talk?
Speaker 2:to you. Dig what I'm saying, been talking.
Speaker 1:It's levels to that shit, but that's what I'm saying mentally for me. I'm over here.
Speaker 2:It's also a maturity thing too.
Speaker 1:I'm over here. I'm not worried about what's going on over there.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and maturity don't have an age on it, it's just really the person. But you got a mature past. A woman's important. It's too many women If you a single man, it's too many women to have to double back in that same pond your homeboys been in.
Speaker 1:Yeah, some people don't have that Some people don't have that access. And a lot of times With.
Speaker 2:Instagram. Everybody got it. Now that's what it look like they be flogging, they be capping.
Speaker 1:They don't really get females like that. But the other thing too is like sometimes your ex think that she going to hurt you.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah.
Speaker 1:By doubling back into your friend group.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I remember in high school.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they do that on purpose.
Speaker 2:I mean, I knew he was sliding. You can't make me mad now.
Speaker 1:You look dumb you look dumb because I really don't give a fuck I don't give a fuck so that's where my mentality is. You know, I'm saying like I know what you're trying to do anyway yeah, I just know it's a lot of a lot of.
Speaker 2:we know some that say they don't give a fuck Not just this subject, but about a lot of things. They really give a fuck. They do.
Speaker 1:Be honest. Be honest, tell the truth.
Speaker 2:Tell the truth, especially with your people.
Speaker 1:Niggas never do that Because they scared, because, at least from what I've seen, people, men, feel like damn, this thing got the ups on me, he got the ups on me on what I'm doing, like he better, like niggas, in our competition with each other.
Speaker 2:Man that's what I'm saying Right in your own circle, In your own circle.
Speaker 1:What are we doing comparing each other?
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's crazy to me. I don't want to be around any type of friend that I can't hold him accountable, and vice versa. I don't want to be in the room where I'm the only voice. If I'm off, if I'm doing something wrong, the right hands would always tell me that.
Speaker 1:The right hands supposed to already tell you. But what if the right hands picking your left pocket?
Speaker 2:Then you messed up. You should have had a better right hand. That's on you.
Speaker 1:You got to pay attention. You should have had a better right hand. That's on you. You got to pay attention. You can't move blind.
Speaker 2:That's why, when you see your partner in a dirt bag, it's like relationships. Yeah, red flags you see the red flag.
Speaker 1:If you ignore it, then you ask for what came next. I like this. This was, this was a. This was a good one. I think a lot of times we we don't see people in our, in our pocket.
Speaker 2:Yeah, shout out to the young bulls trying to figure it out man.
Speaker 1:It's a process, hey some.
Speaker 2:Hey, some of y'all got somebody sitting right next to you now, right now Today, right now Today.
Speaker 1:And he looking at your bitch.
Speaker 2:Hey, he telling your bitch Everything that you he the one stealing your change. Out your ass, trey.
Speaker 1:He the reason why your bitch know all your moves.
Speaker 2:Yeah, hey, it's a sucker right next to you.
Speaker 1:Right next to you when she ask when she ain't hitting you up Talking about some when you going. She already know when the fuck you going.
Speaker 2:But when you know you didn't cover your tracks and she knew she knew. She didn't call LJ, I'd have been in that situation. You know what I'm saying Damn Motherfucker, I tell you Back door, back door you got back door Several times Right there. Hey, pause, that was crazy, that was crazy.
Speaker 1:It's June. Now that was wild. You got to put context when you say that you right. But yeah, motherfuckers be shites bro. But you know, like for me, what don't belong to me ain't from me. You know what I'm saying. So if that's her move and if that's your move, then you weren't meant to be around me. Anyway, I'm a move and if that's your move, then you weren't meant to be around me. I'm cool with moving on and moving forward. I'm cool with replacing my. That ain't. That ain't never been an issue for me.
Speaker 2:You just took me, took my brain somewhere else. So how do you end a relationship with a friend? How, when you were grown man, like y'all?
Speaker 1:I would. What's your homies? Yeah?
Speaker 2:like like the worst that happened, or he didn't move. Is it a conversation or is it just excommunication?
Speaker 1:It's excommunication for me, because I don't have time to be beefing with you over nothing. That ain't even real beef.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:You just not a good friend.
Speaker 2:Talking about a grown man, though. Yeah, I'm so grown man. My favorite line, bro, I didn't use it a few times. This may be the very last conversation we ever had. I started there, then I'm going to say my piece. Whether you respond or not tells me a lot.
Speaker 1:Well, damn Well, if they respond, then you already said your piece, though no, now we can have a conversation, but some people ain't ready for it or don't want to.
Speaker 2:Folks be hurt for real, yeah, but I'm going to own my shit, so let's have the conversation.
Speaker 1:And if you decide, we never talk again, cool. Switching gears and sometimes it be a misunderstanding.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's the point, though it all ties back to communication. Yeah.
Speaker 1:If it's a misunderstanding, it'll come back around. Yeah, you know what I'm saying Like, and that's why I just leave the shit alone, because I'm not finna. Make it worse. You know what I'm saying, like I'm not finna, antagonize you or call you out your name.
Speaker 2:Nah, nah, that ain't no beef.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's what I'm saying, like some people do that though, nah, oh, you don't wanna talk to me, fuck your bitch ass. And you're like, okay, we weren't cool At all ever. Then you know what I'm saying, but it all go. What was the reason why, like, why did we stop? If it's over some money, hell yeah. If it's over some, if it's over some coochie, hell yeah. I mean not bad decisions.
Speaker 2:That's usually the main two, though.
Speaker 1:So if I, if I, if I, you, my homeboy and I gave you $20 and you didn't give it back, I just know I can't give you no money, no more. So don't fucking ask me, yeah. Because if you ask me, I'm going to tell you no.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I just move on, man. Move on, bro. I don't been in my you know my circle for a minute, unless it's crazy. But you just stop becoming a everyday or you might become, you know, a holiday. Check in hit you on your birthday.
Speaker 1:Make sure you yeah, we the the. The conversation cuts a little different. You ain't my everyday partner, no more. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I can't, I can't really fuck. I like that, but I think also, if it's $20, though, back to what you said, if I gave you $20, in my mind it's gone, so I don't expect it back. That's just me, though I don't expect you're going to give it back to me. It's cool, you got it.
Speaker 2:Money will hold another topic.
Speaker 1:Money will make you. Yeah, I want to say at this stage in my life I don't talk to nobody every day except my wife and kids.
Speaker 2:Oh, yeah, I mean. But you know, yeah, Like you said, it's popular. It's really not hard to cut somebody off, cut them down. It's really not hard, because I already.
Speaker 1:Don't talk to nobody, every single day yeah. I got too much going on.
Speaker 2:But you know our daily is more of when something's up. I need to talk to somebody. It's level of communication.
Speaker 1:I'm not saying we hitting each other Every day, on the hour, on the hour Shit. There's levels of communication. That's what I think Makes us really dope the level of how we Communicate with each other, even our group chat, something as simple as that. Yeah, exactly, so you'll know. You'll know the connection, you'll know when the connection stops. It could be as simple as like how we might share a TikTok thread or Instagram post or chime in on current events.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying? I'm just for me, my partner, even if you mad, if you stop talking to me and we ain't never have a conversation. That's some hoe ass shit Now you weird to me. Yeah, like that you weird. Tell me what I did, I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1:I don't care that's crazy, you know me, it didn't happen to me and they looped back around. It was like my bad that, that's how? Yeah, no, that same for me, I'm not, I'm not finna chase you?
Speaker 2:no, I'm not.
Speaker 1:I ain't saying that, it's just weird, though, like it is weird because you're like, damn, all right, cool that's what it is that's what it is. That's what it is. But then it's like, at some point, as a man, especially once you find out the real are you man enough to be like my bad, I fucked up, I took it where it shouldn't have went. You know what I'm saying. If you can be man enough to do that, well, let's pick up where we left off. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:That's just respect. You know what I'm saying, like you don't have to talk to me, but respect me enough to be like. You know I was out of pocket or whatever I was out of pocket.
Speaker 1:The shit ain't even really had nothing to do with you anyway. Men getting their feelings sometimes.
Speaker 2:That's what I brought this hot topic up for. It's just the admitting of that part man.
Speaker 1:Men being your feelings man, Stop acting like you ain't got no feelings. That's all the time.
Speaker 2:All the time man man act like that.
Speaker 1:So going into, I like the hot topic. Hey man, give Mike some love for the hot topic. That was actually. That was pretty goddamn good right there. Fuck with that. Right there, mike Need to add the clapping.
Speaker 3:The clapping.
Speaker 1:You know, let's see if we can get my nigga a little standing ovation right there. Give my nigga a hand clap. Can you get a little hand clap? Let's see if we can get my nigga a hand clap real quick. Mike, I fuck with you the long way, the strong way. We're going to give my nigga, mike, real quick, a hand clap, real quick. Uh-oh, ooh, shit, mike, hey, y'all, I'm playing with this damn thing. That's crazy. That's my dog. We didn't mean to do that. It's it. I read it. Y'all Listen. You know I wasn't an accelerated judge, me. We're going to get into the question of the day. I love this shit right here. What?
Speaker 2:No, I thought we were switching it up.
Speaker 1:Oh, we are switching. Y'all listen, we're switching it up. Today, guys, we're switching it up. Today we're doing something a little different.
Speaker 3:We're going to come back to the question of the day.
Speaker 1:We're doing something kind of dope today, so we're going to leave with Left On Red with.
Speaker 1:Bucko. Oh shit. Yeah, we got to get this out the way because the topic is important and it ties into what we was already talking about. So Left on Red with Bucko. Hey, bucko, I'm afraid I'm about to lose a friendship with my best friend.
Speaker 1:For 10 years strong, I have been sleeping with my best friend's mom for seven months now. It started when I came over for spring break. He is my college roommate and I usually stay with him on breaks and holidays because my parents live out of state. She came on to me and I didn't stop it and I do feel bad, but I don't want to stop messing with her, but I also don't want him to find out either. Should I just come out and tell him, or wait till the time is right, or wait till he find out on his own? What should I do?
Speaker 1:Left on read with Bucko? Oh shit, that's wild right there, damn Damn. You know I gotta get ignorant early. Normally I'd be ignorant towards the end of the show. Um, well, first, I'm assuming they're in college, right? Cause he said they go on breaks like summer break, holiday break, whatever break. So I'm assuming they're in college. Um, yeah, I've been friends for a long time. If you saying that I'm just doing a little math, you said you know you're in college with him. You've with him, you've been friends that long, 10 years strong. So you've known this motherfucker since shit, 12, 11, yeah, I've been knowing each other for a minute. Is that 18 since?
Speaker 1:18 19 you know so yeah, so chose the same school.
Speaker 1:I've been seeing you. You've been seeing his mama for a long time. Um, I guess my take is shoot you, damn. I. I think you need to go ahead and see. I ain't gonna say see it through, but you need to let that boy know. We were just talking about friendships, literally, um, with messing with your home girl or messing with your ex, but now we're talking about somebody, mama, I'm gonna tell y'all something I don't play about valerie buck. I ain't gonna lie to y'all. You know I love my mama, as we all probably love all of ours. But let me tell you something um, if I would rather would, I would rather on some real nigga shit. My mind ain't probably I'm trying to be smart about it, but young me would probably beat your ass. I'm not gonna lie. Young me would probably want to fight you because you've been around the house. And then my question I want to ask is is dad?
Speaker 2:dad can't be around hey, that you, so you took bro dad came my first thought was man I, I know a pops ain't in there.
Speaker 1:He can't be around, bro, because dad got that feeling of man ain't nobody. You know dad ain't around, but if dad is around, dad's somewhere else.
Speaker 2:Dad ain't in the picture, so we talking 18 to 22. We got to follow up with bro 38 to 42.
Speaker 1:Are we going to follow up?
Speaker 2:Yeah, we need some more clarity.
Speaker 1:It's more context.
Speaker 2:Yeah, some, it's more clarity. Yeah, some context. But I just want to say this to everybody ain't no time is right for some bullshit. Hey yo, how'd that end? What the end with rob? What do you? What do you man?
Speaker 1:look, he said. I don't want to stop messing with her, but I don't want him to find out either. Should I just come out and tell him, or wait till the time is right, or wait till he find out on his own.
Speaker 2:To all my young people, middle-aged old people, whoever there's no time is right to tell somebody some fucked up shit, so just tell them you done already crossed the goalpost, man.
Speaker 3:You done scored.
Speaker 2:And now you talking about? You don't want to stop. I wouldn't want to stop either. You don't want to stop and you don't want to tell them it's been seven months, we seven months in. Hey man, you in a whole relationship with your homeboy mama and you talking about when the time going to be right Thanksgiving.
Speaker 1:Hey man.
Speaker 2:Christmas, tell him on his birthday.
Speaker 1:Don't do it.
Speaker 2:There is no time is right. That's your real homeboy. You need to figure out what you're doing with it, because you're probably just getting worked. We got this older lady just working this young man. You're getting your feelings involved.
Speaker 1:She gonna, she gonna be done with you and then you're gonna lose your homeboy anyway. It's seven months in man. Like you should have said something, and that old lady just having fun?
Speaker 2:man it's, it's she getting her cougar on?
Speaker 1:he probably nothing on that thing. I know she can't get pregnant, he probably just eating all of that fucking mama. What your parents going to say though Well, who parents?
Speaker 2:going to say that His parents.
Speaker 1:He said his parents live out of state.
Speaker 2:I mean, I want to talk to the mama too. Man, what's? Going to ask you Moms, your son partner? That's crazy. It's more common than you think, though I believe it.
Speaker 1:Is the issue because the partner's grown they're already grown and old enough to make decisions. Is that the issue?
Speaker 2:The real issue. As long as he's an adult, the only real issue is what if he was a kid?
Speaker 1:That's a criminal issue, that's a legal issue.
Speaker 2:Mom's going to get locked up.
Speaker 1:Somebody's supposed to go to jail. Should he speak up? If he was a kid, is it because he's grown?
Speaker 2:No, if he's grown, it should just be. I'm talking to my partner and we're dapping up every day and then I'm going to go knock your moms down.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:That's just dirt. That's just dirtbag behavior.
Speaker 1:That's wrong, but it's because he's grown.
Speaker 2:Because he's grown. Now, if he a kid, he a kid, that's a. You're getting taken advantage of. Grooming that boy and that like.
Speaker 1:I'm just asking that's a molest. I'm going to ask because it happened to me.
Speaker 2:Oh.
Speaker 3:Well, he in college, so he should at least be 18.
Speaker 1:Wait a minute, hold on. But you talk about something. You were underage. I was definitely underage.
Speaker 2:Are you on the YG shit?
Speaker 1:I don't know what that mean.
Speaker 2:You ain't heard his song.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah, the new joint, yeah, where he? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean I'm pretty sure there's some young men about this story.
Speaker 1:Tell us more. Tell you more, please. I'm intrigued now, and the buck already woke up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he just leaned in and everything. So my story I was definitely underage.
Speaker 2:Hold on. Is it a statute of limitations on?
Speaker 1:molestation? I don't know.
Speaker 2:But rest in peace gone.
Speaker 1:Okay, so she straight Either way.
Speaker 3:Rest in peace. Rest in peace to her.
Speaker 1:Um, I was. I was Probably about 12. Damn yeah, wait a minute. And uh, lost my virginity To A woman. She was about 36 and it was my Homeboy's mom.
Speaker 2:Oh, I don't even. You can't even say homeboy man like y'all but nah, y'all sharing now and later. That's a little different, yeah 12.
Speaker 1:You say how old she? About 36. God damn, I did the math from a calculator.
Speaker 2:Oh, fuck up if she triple your age. Damn, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1:That was an experience. That was my introduction to sex.
Speaker 2:That's wild that lady, Fuck me up that lady. She went to jail she should have.
Speaker 1:But at the time I didn't understand that At the time, as a young man, he was Antoine. Fisher. He was time as a young man. He was antoine fisher. He was. He was the first antoine fisher, real, the original, before the movie, but at the time. But I just like I said it's, it's probably a lot of me out there no, for sure, unfortunately unfortunately, but at the time you okay, my boy said he got him too. Raise your hand.
Speaker 2:That's unfortunate yeah, I mean all these teachers in high schools and shit like that Right man, but it was a situation I didn't ask for that. Right? I would hope not, man.
Speaker 1:I mean, you got some fast-ass little kids that be shooting their shot, but this was an unexpected turn of events.
Speaker 2:So you just had his crib.
Speaker 1:Yeah, well, so Walk us through it, yeah.
Speaker 2:Let me start from the beginning. We was, we was story time with robski robski.
Speaker 1:So we got, we got, we. We had some little, we probably some little bullshit. We, you know, I'm saying, she had you smoking no no, no, so she was going out with the ground. Folks, we, we, I don't even remember where we got the sack, but we are you and your homeboy.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, I had one.
Speaker 1:So you know we experimented. This is our introduction. We jumping off the port, so to speak you know what I'm saying. So, um, we waited till she left and blazed up in the house. We thought we was big shit, had that crib to ourself watching fucking, uh, mtv raps and all that old bullshit and uh, I guess she forgot something.
Speaker 2:She doubled back oh she, she ain't even gone for real, yet she gone.
Speaker 1:We thought she was gone she left, pulled off in the car, she gone quick turnaround she came back probably about 10 minutes, 15 minutes, you know I'm saying, but I left my id.
Speaker 1:You can't get rid of weed smoking fast you don't know so we and that bitch got damaged with our hands and plates and we try to fan the shit out. You know what I'm saying? That shit didn't work. Of course she came, she smelled the shit, so we, we tried to lie. Of course we was like, you know, we ain't doing nothing. That must have been her. Uh, she's like I ain't smoked. You know, I'm saying she like took my shit with me. So me, I'm this him, this, this him trying to lie.
Speaker 2:I'm yeah, I'm you, just I ain't saying shit.
Speaker 1:I don't want her to tell my mom, you know I'm saying so he's trying to get out the shit and it ain't working. I'm like fuck, we fuck. So goddamn um, she tell, she tell us to give it to her. So are we looking at each other? I'm like shit, give it to her. Like fuck. You know, I'm saying, and you can't hide, weed smoke, we were just blowing in this bitch so we gave it to her. So again we still thinking we in trouble. She starts laughing this bullshit, bobby Brown ass weed I ain't smoking no good weed.
Speaker 1:She started roasting this and shit. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:I'm like bitches yo weed the fuck up.
Speaker 1:We stole it from you, but then she light the shit and started smoking it.
Speaker 2:Damn.
Speaker 1:She light the shit and started smoking it. Damn, she liked the shit and started smoking it. You know what I'm saying. So we just sitting there like what's next? Like I thought she was going to whoop us. You know, back then, like aunties and your friends' moms might whoop your ass, you know what I'm saying. So I thought we was going to ass whoop your ass. You know what I'm saying. So I thought we was thinking ass whoop. Thought she was going to march me back home to my mom so I can get my ass whooped. Yeah, she started smoking. So we just sitting there, like we don't know what the fuck to do next. So she tried to pass it to us and shit, and I'm like shit, that's your mama, nigga. Like I ain't fucking with that. So she so okay. So she lit the blunt Back up and her son's in the room, you in the room. I got you now.
Speaker 2:Okay, we good, we good now.
Speaker 1:I got you so she passed it. I think it's a set up.
Speaker 2:She done forgot about going out she.
Speaker 1:I don't know what the fuck happened, but yeah, she definitely forgot About whatever the fuck she was about to go do. So she done't pass the shit. So I seen him hit it and she ain't punch his ass. So I'm like all right, cool. So I guess she chill, she ain't going. You know what I'm saying. I'm just worried about getting it back to my mom. So he passed it to me. I'm like nah. So he tried to pass it back to her and she was like nah, don't be a bitch. Now she was like damn.
Speaker 2:I don't be a bitch now. She was like Damn.
Speaker 1:Oh shit, she made him pass it to me. You know I hit it so long story short. We in there, we getting high, she get us high. So after we smoking, we get high. She like I know you little motherfuckers hungry. Hell yeah, I'm hungering a bitch. I got the munchies, motherfucker. So she make us something to eat. I don't remember what the fuck it was, but she made us some food and shit. So we in there chilling, we eat, or whatever. This nigga fell asleep. He fell asleep, he passed out, so he sleep. I'm like I'm about to go home. She's like you're not going to go home, it's too late. I don't know Whatever she's like. I don't know Whatever she's like. You ain't, finna, go home, you just gonna go ahead and spend the night like you planned on spending the night. She was like I'm finna, tell him to take his punk ass upstairs, hold on. So she made him go upstairs. She gave me the remote to the TV and brought me some Kool-Aid. Yo, you know what I'm saying. It was red.
Speaker 2:Yes.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying? It was red. Yes, you know it was red. Good ice in that Kool-Aid. Okay, so I'm chilling. I'm like okay, so she ain't that mad, she must have just been, you know, flogging or whatever.
Speaker 2:Miss Parker.
Speaker 1:Bro, she go upstairs. You know I'm not thinking about what the fuck she's upstairs doing, I'm just chilling Like I'm happy I'm not in trouble. She come back downstairs and Thinking about what the fuck she's upstairs doing, I'm just chilling Like I'm happy I'm not in trouble. She come back downstairs in some motherfucking lingerie. With some Moe weed Damn and sparks up again. I'm uncomfortable, though, because she's damn near half naked.
Speaker 2:I ain't never seen her like this.
Speaker 1:The things I want to say about this deceased woman. Hey man, this shit's crazy. So she passed me. You know the new, the new joint, we smoking and shit. She start talking about School and Girls and you know Girlfriends. So she feeling me out. Of course I'm lying Because she say some shit like Bet you ain't you ain't. Some shit like bet you ain't you ain't heard smoking, bet you ain't never had your dick wet or some shit, or some stupid shit. I'm like, yeah, I have lying like a motherfucker. I ain't never had sex, but I'm lying though yeah she was like you ain't stop lying.
Speaker 1:she was like you wouldn't even know what to do with it if it was in front of you. I still don't catch on, though you know what I'm saying, I still don't know what the fuck she talking about.
Speaker 2:Yeah, your 12-year-old brain ain't doing nothing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I still don't know, I'm like this bitch you know, what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:All right, cool, I'm really tired of talking about this shit because I don't have no stories to tell. Yeah, I ain't got no lane to have nothing to go to, so I'm just really trying to pretend like I'm done talking about this shit. But she keep at it though. So, uh, she kind of like put her leg up on the table you know, I'm saying the middle table that was in the living room and start talking to me about like shaving her legs and how a woman's supposed to do certain things. Like she's just talking, mind you, you know how your fucking brain going to like a tunnel vision, you high.
Speaker 2:I hear her, but I don't hear her, bro. She sound like Charlie Brown teacher.
Speaker 1:I'm fucked up Like why is she talking to me like this? I'm like somebody's going to come in and catch us In her house. You was worried.
Speaker 2:I'm like somebody's gonna come in and catch us In her house. You was worried.
Speaker 1:I'm terrified. Oh man, I wanna have a macho story. This is not macho, bro. I'm scared as a motherfucker.
Speaker 2:You should've been.
Speaker 1:I don't know what the fuck this bitch is talking about, or why she even talking to me like this.
Speaker 3:Damn.
Speaker 1:What's about to happen. So god damn it. She was like you sleepy. Yet she was like If you sleepy yet she was like if you're sleepy, you can go on the stairs and sleep. I try to pretend like I'm not sleepy, but I am sleepy, but I don't want to go upstairs because I don't know what's going to happen upstairs. Fast forward to I, fall asleep on the couch. She wake me up.
Speaker 1:She's like no, you ain't finished sleep on my couch, you got to go upstairs, whatever. So I'm like okay, yes, ma'am. So I go up, I go up the steps and she come up behind me and she kind of like pat my butt. What the fuck going on. Here's the true story. She kind of like Pat my butt, like get your ass up there.
Speaker 1:But that's In my head, that's what I'm thinking. Like you know what I'm saying. Like get your ass up the steps. You know what I'm saying. And I had to pass by her room To get to my friend's room. I didn't make it, you didn't make it. Yeah, nah. So she kind of like. She kind to my friend's room. I ain't make it, you ain't make it. Yeah, nah, so she kind of like. She kind of like grabbed the back of my pants. You know how they used to grab them, like when you're sagging.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:And she was like go in my room, I want to show you something. I didn't want to go, but I didn't feel like I had a choice. So we go in her room and she had like this little nightlight five on and shit, and so that's the first thing I noticed Like this shit, look like wicked. Like this shit, look like this shit. Don't look like sleep time.
Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying? This shit look like some other shit.
Speaker 1:But I ain't look like sleep time. You know what I'm saying, but I ain't. I ain't know the words. You know I'm saying like the red light special damn and uh, she get to talking about.
Speaker 1:Uh, so what was that shit you was talking about when you was talking about, um, you know, sex or fucking, that you got some pussy before, whatever. And she was like show me what you would do if the pussy was in front of you. So I'm like shit In my head. I'm like I don't know what to do. I really don't.
Speaker 2:I mean you got the beat ready.
Speaker 1:I really don't know what to do. Hold on.
Speaker 2:This is writing M for mature.
Speaker 1:So this is weird. Like the terror crosses my face, I guess she can see it. She sees that I'm terrified in it and she enjoys it. She starts laughing.
Speaker 2:Damn.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she thought she was funny.
Speaker 2:Beyond the point of no return.
Speaker 1:So she was like I told you, as you ain't never had no pussy before, she was like look at you, you don't even know what the fuck to do.
Speaker 2:I don't even know what the fuck to do. I don't. I'm 12.
Speaker 1:Yes, man, I'm right, man, I ain't finna get into all the details, but I can tell you she fucked the shit out of me, damn, that night, and every night she could for about 12 months. A whole year she had me skipping school Like she was seeing her son in school, put him on the bus and tell me I could stay.
Speaker 2:Wow, that's your brother man. I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah, you okay, are you okay?
Speaker 1:I think I'm okay, all right.
Speaker 2:I know that fucked you up. You was a fucked up teenager.
Speaker 1:It fucked me up for a long time. I'm going to tell you why. First and foremost, she didn't want me fucking with girls my age. She kind of put me in a relationship with her. That lady's crazy. She's absolutely fucking crazy.
Speaker 2:That's fucked up bro.
Speaker 1:She kind of put me in a relationship with her and where she got jealous, she would get jealous. She'd find notes in my backpack.
Speaker 2:What the fuck. For real, bro, she jealous over some middle schoolers.
Speaker 1:Man, I'm telling you this is the craziest shit ever.
Speaker 2:I mean. Trauma comes in all kinds of forms.
Speaker 1:Man, she taught me shit that I shouldn't know. Of course you understand what. I'm saying, damn, she had her sex driver so high she would want to have sex like two, three times. You know what I'm saying. So fast forward to when I actually started trying to have sex with girls my age.
Speaker 2:Them little girls didn't stand a chance.
Speaker 1:Bro, I didn't want that. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because they weren't where I was mentally.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's what fucked up, though. Yeah, like she put you on a fast track.
Speaker 1:And I and she taught me what women like and what women want.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Men, don't talk about these stories.
Speaker 1:I started hollering at grown women, older women at a young age and it shit worked. It was crazy, but it did. That's another day, another time. But yeah, that was my story for that, because I never talked to him about it, I never told him. I assumed he knew because the bedrooms were right next to each other. But how do you come out at 12 and tell your partner?
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's a little different when it's criminal.
Speaker 1:Right, what's happening now? Fast forward. After I got away, I had to break up with this bitch.
Speaker 2:That's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 1:I had to tell her like straight up I'm not fucking you, no more, I'm not doing this shit, no more. I'm not standing night. I stopped coming over at night. I stopped coming in his house, literally like I might come in the foyer in the front door with. You know I'm saying I might come right there. I stopped coming around because I had to get away from her that's crazy wow, she got another one of my partners oh she, this was her thing, this her bad.
Speaker 1:And the crazy thing is she tried to do it one day. We was all there and I guess he didn't want to because he thought we was going to find out. I talked to him later so he was trying to tell her no, not right now. And she wasn't trying to listen. So he pushed her and she fell damn come on bro, so old ass good man.
Speaker 1:He ran down the steps. As he was running down the steps, she came behind him. I guess she thought he was about to tell us what happened. She came behind him talking about he raped me. He raped me. He raped me. He's trying to rape me now my homeboy Is ready to fight and kill this nigga.
Speaker 2:This is too much bro.
Speaker 1:But he don't know what I know. You come out, tell the truth. No.
Speaker 3:I didn't, I just I broke.
Speaker 2:No, I didn't. No, I did not.
Speaker 3:I just told you.
Speaker 2:My homeboy.
Speaker 1:Is trying to kill this nigga.
Speaker 3:No, I didn't. I put myself in the middle of that.
Speaker 1:You tripping? Oh shit, I'm trying to defuse the situation. I get in between and I'm telling my homeboy, like you don't know what happened. He like what you mean, I don't know? My mama just said, and I did everything I could without telling him. I said I'm telling you that you don't know what happened up those stairs because we weren't up there.
Speaker 2:This is crazy.
Speaker 1:So I'm like we at least need to hear his side.
Speaker 2:I'm cutting everybody off, fuck all y'all.
Speaker 1:So anyway, he wasn't trying to rap. He wasn't trying to rap, he didn't want to listen, he didn't want to talk. So I understood. I said so we just going to leave, because it was actually it was four or five of us there, so we left him there with his mom so they can do whatever it is they do. I took me and my other homeboys and we left. We had the conversation and he told me exactly what really happened.
Speaker 2:And I said don't take.
Speaker 1:No, I didn't. I just told his stupid ass, ass, don't go back up damn it didn't come out till probably we was all grown when. When the conversation came up and the only reason why it came up again is because another one of our homeboys was telling his truth she got three. Antoine's Lucille was getting out last week. As far as we know, she got at least three of us.
Speaker 2:That's crazy. It was Mo.
Speaker 1:So after it was me, it was my other partner. After that shit happened, he didn't go back to Mo, she got another one and I don't know, did you ever go back? I just told you I ain't going to that motherfucking house, no more.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's crazy, bro. Damn, What'd you say? Miss Lucille RP?
Speaker 1:Lucille Might step in the foyer might step right there in the front door but, it was even a point after that. After what she did to my other partner, I didn't go through the bro it's porch action only and man to y'all parents with teenagers man, talk to your kids.
Speaker 2:Man, damn, have good relationships, get some wild shit out of here.
Speaker 1:I really do like for real, like real nigga shit. I really hate that. I eventually, I eventually told my mom too what'd she say? She wanted to do something to her.
Speaker 2:But again, rest in peace, she's out of the country, yeah that's unfortunate, though, like on some real shit, Like as a young man, it seems celebratory.
Speaker 1:It seems like you don't want to.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I mean in reality, though, the mental part of that, the mindset it's too much man, that's a lot, you wouldn't do that.
Speaker 1:I used to lock myself in the bathroom trying to get away from it.
Speaker 2:That's crazy.
Speaker 1:Wow, bro, and she would pick the lock.
Speaker 2:Oh, man, we need some. We need some feel good music, we need some prayer she would pick the lock.
Speaker 1:Ay, it's like After round two. Now I'm 12, round two.
Speaker 2:That's wild. Only round two. I knew at 12 Was Mortal Kombat Right. Exactly, mike Tyson. Punch out Like you.
Speaker 1:Ay, but I really am glad I gotta use the bathroom. I lock myself in the bathroom. She come in like Rob, Bring your ass back to me, that's not funny.
Speaker 2:It's not, but damn.
Speaker 1:Are you okay for real? I am now Today, yeah, at this point, yeah, but kind of what Mike said Talk to your children.
Speaker 2:Yeah, man Pay attention to your children, mike.
Speaker 1:You know you be worried about your daughters your son, your son might be over there catching some cat yeah, that thunder cat. Yeah, I mean that for so mine's gonna be two minutes. It's quick. I didn't go through what you went through. I was. I just real quick. I left some shit out too well, we appreciate that, hey. Hey, I'm glad he's got them sensor button. You kept on saying some shit. I got nervous for a second. Mine ain't as bad as yours. Mine's more of a celebratory, happy, funny moment. Was you an adult?
Speaker 2:No, I was not. I was not, shit.
Speaker 1:I was not, but I'm going to name drop some folks because folks don't know the story. I got to tell it, so I was 15. 15. Shout out to the people who know this shit.
Speaker 2:No, they're going to know, they're going to repost it.
Speaker 1:I ain't going to say nobody's name. Oh to your people. Talk about the people that know. Shout out to y'all.
Speaker 2:Shout out to the people that know.
Speaker 1:If y'all know, hey, the Rob story, that's all we're going to say.
Speaker 2:Hey, you're going to have in my home Hold on before you go, though, bro, when he was going up them steps, the only thing that was left was that bitch had a ferret, that bitch had a ferret, Ayo shit. If you know, you know, if you know, you know that ferret came out bro A ferret came out.
Speaker 1:We ain't gonna do that, but. But this story involves another white woman though.
Speaker 1:Oh shit, she didn't call me the N-word. No, she didn't call you one. This one didn't call me one either. I mean, I was in Bytley, michigan, my boy, robert Beebe Shout out to my boy, robert Beebe he finna get married this year. He's probably one of my closest Best white friend I ever had. Man that's my dog man I used to go it's this pot in Michigan, in Bytley. It's real small. He lived in Bytley and I lived in Baldwin and I would come out there and there was this guy at school I used to go to school with. Everybody that went to school with me knows the guy. His name was Cody and Cody.
Speaker 2:That's a white name.
Speaker 1:Cody had a mom and a sister, couple sisters, I think. Me and my brother Tremaine. We go to Bytely one weekend to go stay with Bebe. That's where Bebe stayed. I said Bebe, bro, I think Cody's mom wants to fuck bro. He's like bro, you're bullshitting, he don't want to fuck, she goes with Bear. Bear was Cody's stepdad, white guy, real small, like he did coke, like look crazy as shit. Why his name Bear? I don't know that's what they called him. He looked small and like he did drugs so I text. So Facebook was big back then. Well, it wasn't big, but we thought it was because that's how we knew.
Speaker 3:When was this?
Speaker 1:I was 15, so it had to have been 2010.
Speaker 3:Okay 2010.
Speaker 1:So I was on Messenger. You know, back then On Messenger you actually you didn't know Right now you don't have to be friends, but remember back then you had you did the poking thing. People was poking each other. So I poked that was stupid. It was it would get their attention. So I was. She poked me Like on the app.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I know what that means and I was 15, and I poked her back. So then we're poking each other like back to back and like somebody's got to make a message. So I'm like man, let me message her. I said you going to keep on poking me? What's going on? She said hey, baby, and we started talking there and I showed Bebe, now Cody. He was a cool white guy, he was so cool. I said Tremaine, my other brother, who's a twin. I said, bro, let's go over to Cody's mom.
Speaker 2:She said she wanted me to come over when Bear goes to work.
Speaker 1:I said, all right, cool, so Tremaine goes with me. It's like 4 o'clock in the morning. If y'all ain't never been to Bitely, michigan, at 4 o'clock in the morning, there's wolves out there and cougars and shit. I was really scared to walk my ass. The people that know, you know it's okay, so it was crazy. What's that show that's about to come back out? Which one? Stranger Things? Yeah, stranger.
Speaker 2:Things.
Speaker 1:That's what it kind of, yeah, so we walk over there. She texts me. She says hey, he's finna, go to work. I watch him. Bear get in his car, go to work. Was Bear high, I don't know? He went to work in Big Rapids so I wasn't worried about him. That was like a 50-minute drive. As soon as he leaves, I wait. My heart races. Now At 15, I'm nervous because I'm like I'm in somebody else's house. I'm underage, I'm messing with this white woman Like I'm scared. And my brother? He don't know no better. He don't know no better at all. He's over there trying to mess with the little girl. It's his age so he wasn't really worried. He go in there. Cody's not there. Don't know where the fuck cody was. I don't know where cody was. Cody was not there. No, no, no, no, no. I lie. Cody stayed the night with us at bb's. Goddamn house.
Speaker 2:Y'all didn't love cody yet at bb.
Speaker 1:yeah, cuz bb had my back. Show the fuck this. So we're at c Cody's house Without Cody, without Cody. So Bear's gone and I ain't going to lie. That white woman took me out. She took me down. Cody, your mama has some good ass pussy. I'm not even going to say a lot to you.
Speaker 2:That is out of control. She did something wild to me.
Speaker 1:That's insane. She did something wild to me. I know I know it'd out, but I used to mess with him all the time, say you're my son and joked. So he never, he never. But today, today, cody is June, the second Cody. Now. You know I was your father and I was fucking your mama and I'm tell my missus she's a good lady, good lady, that's crazy, but see different stories different.
Speaker 2:That was more malicious, yeah, but Poking on Facebook, poking kids, man, he sought that out.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:I'm sorry, I can dig it, though, that's great Different times.
Speaker 1:I mean so from 12 to 15. I was definitely a predator, but it goes back to the. You know the note.
Speaker 3:The left on red I think it comes out to that.
Speaker 1:I was after the pussy At that point.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1:After 12, like I think it comes out to that I was after the pussy at that point?
Speaker 3:At what age? After 12. Like the shit she taught me, that shit fucked me up.
Speaker 1:Of course it did I was chasing the cat after that.
Speaker 2:Let's talk to Timmy. I'm going to name him Timmy and it's left on read. Hey man, you got to break up with one of them, you got to break up with mama and you already said you didn't want to do that, so you got to break up with your best friend, man. He can't be your best friend without knowing Now he might be cool and be like man. Hey, man, y'all grown.
Speaker 2:But the longer you keep up, you tell him seven months he going to punch you in the face. Yeah, what if you get his mom pregnant or you going to get walked? In on them, don't know, oh shit your boy because you are fucking her in their house. Yeah like you playing with fire, bro. That's true. That's how people die and y'all are grown, so you can't say that you got taken advantage yeah, just had a conversation with your homeboy and the same thing you told us tell him, man, I don't want to stop. Are you in love? Are?
Speaker 1:you in love or you just like fucking. He just like fucking, that's. That's.
Speaker 2:That's why he ain't told him, because if he's in love or you just like fucking, he just like fucking, that's why he ain't told him?
Speaker 1:Because if he's in love, you know everybody want to share that Hell. No, not that, not with somebody's mama, I don't know. We're going to find out. I'm marrying your mom. We got to follow up with this. Yeah, we're going to holler at Timmy man. We're going to holler at him for shit show. I'm ready. I'm ready to. I'm ready to get into some questions.
Speaker 1:Let's do it baby, I'm ready to get into some questions and the questions of the day. I'm ready, you know I'm gonna. I'm gonna hand it with y'all first, but then we're gonna get some folks on the line With the question of the day. Yes, sir. So the questions of the day, we're gonna let them. Of course, we're gonna tell them when they get on, but the and move it around. We've got two Pulling up real quick for y'all. Question number one how do men or women handle complimenting your girl or your significant other in front of you? So if it's a man, how would you handle somebody giving your girl a compliment in front of you? If you're coming out of the mall or going from dinner and two guys come up and are like, hey, damn, she look good like in front of you, how do you handle that?
Speaker 2:She do Okay, she do look good, so you just end up making a comment. Well, they make a comment a compliment, or they talking to you, but you know that talking to you like you know how you walk by and niggas, like old lady, I'm going to say for sure. Yes, sir, I'm going to salute him back.
Speaker 1:Okay, the only way to go as long as you ain't disrespectful.
Speaker 2:I know what.
Speaker 1:I went outside with my wife ain't going to talk to you or respond or even look at you anyway, so I'm not worried about that shit, anything else. My nigga, you asking for whatever comes next. As long as you, I mean my wife is bad though she, as long as you, I mean, but I, my wife is bad though she's fine as a motherfucker. So I I expect Her to get those reactions. She get them when I'm not with her. She tell me like, or call me on FaceTime you know what I'm saying Like.
Speaker 2:It's part of it. You know the world, you in.
Speaker 1:It's part of it's part of having or being with someone who's attractive, so you feel like that's just, it's a natural thing. Yeah, if you're not secure enough to handle that shit, don't get you a team. Oh yeah, it could be an issue Don't get you somebody that look good, they'll find you ugly.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I was in the years ago. We was in our early 20s. Dude, we in the casino. Uh-huh dude, we in the casino trying to figure out our next move. Dude, come and grab my hand. I just want to let you know you are the most beautiful woman in here. Took my hand. I'm like I appreciate it, bro, Kind of weird, but just had to keep it moving you can't get mad at that.
Speaker 1:Couldn't get mad at that, yeah.
Speaker 2:Wow, Little young dude.
Speaker 1:I think we got our. I think we got our first, got our first call on the line. Yeah, I wanna hear. I wanna hear a female's Take on. I definitely we got. We got one of them coming on, we got a. We got this. We got an Ignite coming on here With us right now. I said his name is Hold on, ignat D. Ignat D, I'll let your boy Ignat D hello. Ignat D you there, Yo y'all.
Speaker 3:Yo, what's going on?
Speaker 2:What's up, son? What's going on, man? How Ignat you about to be?
Speaker 1:Talk to us.
Speaker 4:Y'all what's up, what's up. Y'all got questions.
Speaker 1:Ignity. What's going on? You alright over there, you going through a tunnel can you hear me? Yeah, technical difficulties. Can you hear me now? Ig, can you hear me now?
Speaker 3:No.
Speaker 2:It's a technical.
Speaker 1:It's a technical, it's a technical Ig. We're going to give you one second. We got you. We'll make sure we tap back in. I'm going to give you a call right back in a second, and I hate that I couldn't grab him all real quick. I'm finna figure out what's going on with that and see. So give me one second. Y'all. We finna, we're going to keep it moving, though.
Speaker 2:Keep it going for me. So, Second question.
Speaker 1:Yeah. Second question is would you rather have a partner with great sex but poor financial situation, oh shit. Or horrible sex but he caked up, he or she got money. Which one would you prefer? You know I ain't shit, you know I'm not shit. I'd rather, I'd rather. I'd rather you have some good-ass coochie and you just broke. I'll come fuck. You broke down on that broke-ass air mattress. That coochie good as fire. Listen, that coochie fire. I'll beat that motherfucker down. Y'all know you got an air mattress, I know you got roaches.
Speaker 1:I know you ain't living the way you need to live. Guess what I know you ain't getting that motherfucker down. Y'all know you got an air mattress. I know you got roaches. I know you ain't living the way you need to live. Guess what I know you ain't getting that motherfucker waxed. Don't worry, damn that motherfucker fine old Damn. You kind of carried away from me.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't know how you get past the goddamn roaches. You seen the roach on the bed while you spent time you ain't never had that happen before I had to be like a kid bro, Like maybe a kid, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:You ain't never seen no coochie, no, no, excuse me, you ain't never seen no hit, no coochie. And then like you over here, hitting it from the back, and then you see a roach crawling from the left to the right. You see something come across your face real quick in the corner. You're like oh shit. But you don't stop. But you know what you in right now you in the dungeon.
Speaker 2:It's time to go no.
Speaker 1:It's time to go? Yeah, it's time to go. You ain't had one crawl on your back while you was doing it. It's time to go.
Speaker 2:You can keep them roaches.
Speaker 1:We ain't doing that, so.
Speaker 2:I think it's circumstantial.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I would say Bucko. Bucko Is crazy, don't listen to him.
Speaker 2:Yeah I, if you broke now, you might not be broke forever.
Speaker 1:So yeah, we gotta. We gotta get your life together.
Speaker 2:But yeah, you need somebody to help you Get on your shit, and while I'm doing that, or while you doing that, I'm doing you, and then We'll figure it out.
Speaker 1:But I mean yeah, I ain't looking for no sugar, mama, you know what I'm saying. Like before, when I was single. Yeah, this all past tense, this past tense because I mean I'm married, so I ain't looking for nothing. But in general you describe beyond poverty.
Speaker 2:Like that's crazy man who having kids.
Speaker 1:We just speak in general, the air mattress with the roaches.
Speaker 2:We know the chick got the broke dude Hello.
Speaker 1:The motherfucking Bush Can you hear us.
Speaker 4:You can hear me? Yeah, we can hear you.
Speaker 1:Very good Am.
Speaker 4:I clear.
Speaker 1:You're not clear. I don't know why you're not clear. He's doing the're not clear. I don't know why you're not clear what's the? Same thing. You're doing the same thing. I don't know why you're not clear yeah, I need you to put some headphones in. You sound like a trucker. You're a trucker, nigga. Put some headphones in. Oh wait, that shit sound terrible. I'm finna. Bring my next woman on. Put some headphones in there. Oh wait, that shit sound terrible. I'm finna bring my next woman on.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't know it's you. I'm finna bring a contestant earlier, so it ain't us. So I'm finna bring this woman on. But it's okay, it's okay, don't even worry about it. Don't worry about it, hey, but listen, you sound like a good man. We appreciate you. We're gonna get you back on here, man. Have yourself a good one, alright. That is crazy. Poor financial situation. That could just mean bad credit.
Speaker 2:Well, that's temporary but you know, when you young, you deal with anything. Maybe your car, I mean with your teens, twenties, you ain't looking for nobody With no bad.
Speaker 1:Well, that ain't the You're not looking for, not for no male Men. Don't do that. Yeah, we're not looking for the motherfucker who a millionaire?
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Shit, I just want. That's why I said I'll take the Gucci. But you described some shit that's beyond. She ain't got no money. I assume she broke you described.
Speaker 2:That's also Broken roaches.
Speaker 1:That's also Broken roaches. That's also like Bad hygiene. She ain't got no money, bro. You can still have good hygiene, bucko, just said he ain't got no limit man. Wait a minute. I'm just saying we just said she ain't, we just said that the woman Ain't got no money. So how you gonna Go get a wax? I mean, you gotta Shave that motherfucker. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:Hey, you got a little cheap razor.
Speaker 1:Them little razors like be a dollar two dollars. You have little razor bumps on that, little razors, little bicks. I don't want little bicks. You got little bick burns on there. That's what we call them bick burns.
Speaker 2:Bick burns. Yeah, she cutting herself now. Now the coochie getting cut. Help her out, man. Level her up.
Speaker 1:You gotta have a good hijack. I try to keep the hair on. Fuck it. But I understand what you're saying. I get it Sometime when you're struggling. You ain't got the best.
Speaker 2:Ignorant bucko, but you gotta do.
Speaker 1:What you gotta do.
Speaker 3:Hey, you know what I'm saying. So.
Speaker 1:Let me ask you Cause we both got some thick beards out here you want to put your tongue in some. I'm just asking a question. If it was there, it was hair. You ain't never had no hair in Coochie. That woman had you in some hair in Coochie back then. You ain't gonna tell me now I'm feeling explained.
Speaker 2:Don't take us back down to Rabbit Hall in the last station. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1:You just hit me. Don't take us back down to rabbit hole, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. That was back in. That was back in the fucking early 90's. That was 90's, 2000. I know that coochie wasn't wet. First of all, I ain't put my mouth on that shit. That's number one. So we? I'm trying to get away from that conversation. I'm sorry. I'm sorry bro.
Speaker 2:I'm trying to get away From that conversation. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I'm sorry bro.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry, but anyway I'ma leave that alone. I'm sorry what I'm saying is.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry.
Speaker 1:Like yes, sir, I understand you. In a relationship, it's not gonna always be Freshly waxed.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:But you talking about like On the creep up.
Speaker 2:I'm talking about that.
Speaker 1:Like you hit me up or I hit you up for the. You know what I'm saying and you wasn't ready. I'm talking about from the back. It's hairy.
Speaker 2:Get that wolf out of here.
Speaker 1:You wasn't prepared for. Nah, I'm not doing that. I did it one time. I ain't like it. But go you out of control. Man, get some styling gel and style that shit. That shit was long. You enjoyed that, though I remember when I was young. You like wolf pussy. I was young. Now you still do it today. I was young, Come on bro, I was young.
Speaker 2:I don't do the wolf pussy, don't count me your rapper, you would do a wolf pussy. When I was a teenager in the barbershop. They better have some hair.
Speaker 1:You're on the smack of the wolf pussy.
Speaker 2:Them old cats man. They like to hear.
Speaker 1:I might. I know you would.
Speaker 2:But we ain't talking about long?
Speaker 1:Huh, we ain't talking about long, coochie. You just said twirling your fingers. That was when I was younger bro, when I was younger, that shit was long as hell. Bro, you could have got some style in jail and I could have made that bitch have a swoop to. They've been waxing pussies since, like goddammit, 60s, 70s For real I guess.
Speaker 2:I mean I don't know Trimming them up, that's too much.
Speaker 1:You watch some old pornos. You know what I'm saying. They at least was neat bushes. They had them like in cutting designs and shit.
Speaker 2:We ain't got to put broke and hairy in the same bucket, man.
Speaker 1:A woman go like this. You know how we used to go to the barbershop back in the day. The question said poor financial situation. Yeah, it did. It didn't say. I assume it didn't say the bottom of the poverty.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it didn't say destitute.
Speaker 1:You right Shit. I assume you ain't got no money. So again, it ain't got nothing to do with money. I know, Not looking for the bag, who I like and who like me and we get along, and you know what I'm saying. Like it's a. Sometimes it might not be the person who got the most money, male or female. You might miss your blessing.
Speaker 2:Hey, whatever you're compatible with, it's just your stage of life. You might miss your blessing If you're just outside.
Speaker 1:Sometimes people start over too. Like this is my start over phase. I just left, came to a new city. I ain't got all my furniture yet, like, whatever the fuck that shit look like, bro, I ain't going to judge you off that. I'm finna have a conversation with you first. Anyway, we gonna talk about, like what, what your goals are, what you plan on, where you see yourself in six months, three months.
Speaker 2:Just running in, Just running in, running in and out. Ain't nobody asking them questions.
Speaker 1:Asking what questions? A lot of people don't ask them questions, any questions, any questions.
Speaker 2:Depending on the time of your life and day.
Speaker 1:We're talking about the coochie, If you trying to so again. This says would you rather have a partner based off the question?
Speaker 2:If you talking, about like a booty call. If you talking about like a, booty call.
Speaker 1:If you're talking about like a booty call like a one-night stand we just left from the club. We just left from the club and you said you're trying to get hit right now and you drunk at 3 o'clock in the morning. Yeah, you might overlook.
Speaker 2:Amen.
Speaker 1:You might overlook the roach, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I think in our community, though, that's why we got so many Broken families and baby mamas and baby daddies, cause you pick somebody Based on the bedroom, and women do it too. It ain't just Men picking bad For the sex.
Speaker 1:I ain't been in. I ain't been in that mindset. I couldn't even tell you how long.
Speaker 2:I mean some old motherfuckers Probably still in it.
Speaker 1:Mar, that's how you get in trouble and get fucked up. Yeah, there's a connection, bro. It's still happening, mar, can you hear me? Yeah, can you hear me. That is crazy. You sound like a fat person, that is crazy.
Speaker 3:This is not your fault, though it's not your fault.
Speaker 1:It ain't you Mar it ain't you Mar.
Speaker 4:It's not your fault, it ain't you Mar, it ain't you Mar.
Speaker 1:Yeah, hold on, you sound funky, like really funky. What about now? You sound low, mar, it's really just going in and out it is it is.
Speaker 1:It's going in and out on you, buki. We definitely want to get your feedback, but, hey, I'm going to make sure we get back in. We tap back in with you, okay, hey guys. Hey, again, sorry for the technical, I'm going to make sure we get back in. We tag back in with you, okay, hey guys. Hey, again, sorry for the technical difficulties. Again, these people coming through Sound like robots. Yeah, I don't know what that is, where I get that.
Speaker 1:We're going to get that fixed and figure the fuck out, because I, because I that's wild to me. So what we so them questions guys Was really for, was really for the people. I definitely want to hear you know what everyone else has to say when it comes to they love life and what they want to do, because I kind of got an idea what I would do. You know, I want to get I want to get knocked in with them what they want to do. Yeah, your answer didn't answer the question at all. Which question? The question was would you rather have a partner with great sex but poor financial situation and vice versa? I want the one that's going to give me the better value. What's the better value? I don't know.
Speaker 1:you gotta tell us what the value is so if I get her, if I get her and she got some money, okay, cool, she got some money. But can I teach her how to suck dick better? I ain't never did it before, so I don't know how to teach her. I'm glad you said that it ain't. When you teach somebody to do something for you or to you, it's about what you like yourself. You don't even have to have done it to know how you like it done to yourself, unless you just don't get hit. So your education piece for that person is going to be how do you like for her to do what you want her to do to you? And yeah, you can teach a female how to do what you want her to do to you. And yeah, you can teach a female how to do what you need them to do perfect, perfect, perfect man. Well, hey, listen, I gotta call her. Gotta call her on in. Gotta call her on in caller. Go ahead, give us your name. How we doing?
Speaker 1:hello, mar hey can you hear me there, we go, there, we go, how we doing how you doing good, baby doing good we gotta go ahead and get you to answer, you know, first the questions of the day and then we're gonna get this thing popping with you all right, all right, let's do it. So the first question I'm going to ask you is how would you handle being complimented by another man in front of your man?
Speaker 4:Um, hmm, that could be a little tricky Because, um, that can be a little tricky because, um, so the guy that I'm with now are sort of kind of well situation, he knows, he knows that I'm poly. So if another guy complimented me, um, it would depend on what my reaction would be, whether or not it would be a like a flirtatious kind of or just say hey, thank you kind of to her keep it pushing. Um, it would depend so let me clarify.
Speaker 1:You said your man that you have now knows that you're poly yes are you and him poly together? We're not poly together, so how?
Speaker 4:are you poly? If you and him poly together, we're not poly together.
Speaker 1:So how are you poly if you and him are not poly? I guess for the non-poly people.
Speaker 4:So my interactions with him are just like me and him. But, I myself can venture off and do what I wanted to do.
Speaker 1:So you all have an open relationship.
Speaker 4:Well for me. I mean, he says he wants to do it on his side, kind of thing, but he knew dating me that I was poly before I met him.
Speaker 1:So you buy, basically buy, and you like venturing off on your own.
Speaker 4:Wait, say that again.
Speaker 1:You like venturing off on your own no, and it's not like a like.
Speaker 4:I mean, if it happens, it happens, um, that kind of thing. He cool with that, not like looking. Yeah, he's cool with that. When I met him that year, I had already had that discussion okay, interesting.
Speaker 2:What's your, your demographic, you in your 20s, 30s? I'm in my 30s okay, you, how long you been living a poly lifestyle?
Speaker 4:I was like in my late 20s, early 30s okay, you have children. I might do.
Speaker 2:I have two children teenagers yes have you talked to them about your lifestyle?
Speaker 4:no, I haven't any particular reason why, or just chose not to just chose like I don't feel like that's something, that's any of their children. I want them to stay that way because I can maintain that. No, they don't stay children you don't think they know are you right?
Speaker 2:they don't um. No, I don't think so they got smartphones?
Speaker 4:uh, they do. I mean, I'm pretty sure they know about it, they just don't know about me. Let's put, put it that way yeah. That's for my 17-year-old.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, you need to have that conversation.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Because you should want to give them the knowledge of how you live before they judge you for it by not knowing If you think they don't.
Speaker 4:No, I don't think that's a judgment thing. I just don't think that that's something I want to share with them about, even after they're. I don't think it's a judgment thing.
Speaker 1:I just don't think that that's something I want to share with them about, even, even after they're adults, Well, maybe when they get to adulthood.
Speaker 4:yeah, we can have that kind of conversation, but I don't feel like it's a needed conversation at this moment.
Speaker 1:Interesting, Cool. So like I don't, I don't know much about Polly other than what I see on like social media, but other than what I see on social media. But that's not something that's done out in the open to where maybe their friend might see it or somebody else's parents might see it.
Speaker 3:So there's no way for them to find out on their own accidentally.
Speaker 4:No, I don't think so. At least it hasn't happened yet. Got you Anything's possible? You know what I mean, but it's not a situation where it's. I think a lot of people view poly as just people just having sex with other people, instead of it just being like relationship based, like just you know picking it, like what's your partner, your homeboy, your homegirl? The sexual aspect may come as you and that person start messing around, but for the most part, for me, it's not all sexual encounter.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I thought it was relationship based. That's why I was asking how are? You poly if he's not poly, because I thought it was like y'all together would be poly.
Speaker 4:um no, so all my interactions don't include him. They don't, or they do so like when they don't. Okay, that do so like they don't. Okay, gotcha, include him, understood, yeah.
Speaker 1:Okay, yeah, that's definitely an interesting take.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean, knowledge is power.
Speaker 1:Absolutely Everybody got different shit that they.
Speaker 2:They do your thing, everybody happy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, consenting good, yeah, that's all that matters. I think that's pretty dope. So then, that's all that matters. I think that's pretty dope. So then that goes into the next. You know the next question I want to ask, though, you know, would you rather have Since you know you in the Poly lifestyle, I got to ask Would you rather have A partner with great sex but poor financial situation, or vice versa? Would you rather be broke? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:No, they up, oh they up. They got money, but the sex is trash.
Speaker 1:It ain't no good which one you prefer and why.
Speaker 4:Man, that's a little sticky, because me and Tyler talked about this earlier today.
Speaker 1:I'm going to shut up.
Speaker 4:That's a little sticky, so it is sticky. Should I say sticky? I mean it's like complicated, complex, so it's. It can become complex, right, because good sexual cloud or judgment about other situations, um, but in the end, of course, in the end, financial stability is very important, but if you have your own financial stability, then it. It shouldn't matter what your partner has, unless you're trying to build something that y'all can't afford together. That's what I would say, because if you you could be with somebody who said um.
Speaker 4:so I've been in a situation with this dude. I used to call it too pumped Jump. His sex was bad.
Speaker 1:Women's audition speaker Tupac Chump. That's his name in the phone.
Speaker 4:Yeah, his name is Tupac. Chump His sex was not good.
Speaker 1:That's crazy work Crazy.
Speaker 4:So how'd that work out? So his sex was not good, so the sex was not good, but his financial situation was on point, like he was taking care of bills. You know, life was good, lights was never cut off, water was never cut off. Um, so I wouldn't say that I would prefer to have someone that my life was cut off type situation right away in the dark. But that's what goes to like. If you got your own finance situation like when you're already paying your own bills, you live on your own, your life's already on and the only thing that you're missing is someone with good sex then that financial situation would be a conversation to put in there, because you ain't got to have that kind of conversation, because you already take care of your own finances.
Speaker 1:So, so, so, so are you going to run. So my thing is, which one are you picking? Um, you had to choose. Was this like 20?
Speaker 4:If I had to choose the balloon yeah, Um so so like right now I would go for the person with good sex and not a good financial situation because I'm financing myself. That's what I would go for right now. But it's like long-term type shit you're looking for and you're like I really want a house with a pool or blah, blah, blah, you got other goals you're looking for. Then, yeah, you would want that person to be eventually at that financial situation to help out.
Speaker 1:But I mean, I guess it's whatever season you're in could you, could you, could you teach somebody with bad sex to have good sex?
Speaker 4:can we get you? Can't try to learn your body let's get to the phone.
Speaker 2:To the phone, what's the? Don't be dying on this.
Speaker 1:Kegel?
Speaker 4:I don't know good sex can be taught right.
Speaker 1:I don't believe that that's why I asked what you mean. We talked about it earlier. There's no way and not to say that eventually didn't see. That's why what you mean. He don't believe that, cause we talked about it earlier man, there's no way how I think. I think the acts can be taught, but you can't teach what that man ain't got and that man ain't got enough, cause if he had two pump, he got nah, they got the little.
Speaker 4:They got like little dick extenders. If you ain't got enough of them, wait a minute.
Speaker 1:That don't fuck up. Drop this call. What you mean? Extenders.
Speaker 4:That shit is wild, bro. They do. It's like a, like a mini, like a sock kind of situation.
Speaker 2:But the top of it is extra teeth Clearly he had punk issues.
Speaker 4:He's gonna teach somebody, but it can be taught. He's trying to say to them if you ain't got it, you ain't got it. Unless size or girth is your problem, everything else you can get, everything else can be taught To the short meat.
Speaker 1:Bro, we weren't talking about short meat.
Speaker 4:Yeah to the short meat part, If you know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, if you know like extenders and got down I didn't know I need to I need to mute button I didn't know we're just trying to get two pump to four pump.
Speaker 2:I didn't know, Were you trying to get two-pumped or four-pumped? I didn't know if two-pumped was yeah so two-pumped or four-pumped?
Speaker 4:Yeah, so two-pumped or four-pumped? Right, but we can do two-pumps Well, I mean, it's not exactly two-pumps, but we ain't at ten-pumps.
Speaker 1:One Mississippi, two Mississippi.
Speaker 4:So you made a teach the pull out, nah, nah, that's another story. This dude is too pump chump, he just not.
Speaker 1:What you mean. She's too long, she's too long. How is story longer than the dick? Now hold the fuck up, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I apologize.
Speaker 4:No, the story is longer. So, two pumps right, you can teach two pumps to get to four pumps right. If in one and a half pumps, right, you can teach two pumps to get the four pumps right. If in one and a half pumps you need to pull out or we might need to start kissing, or you know something else may need to happen in between. The second pump right. Or if you know that that's what it is, you may have to eat a little longer because you know, once you get in it you're not laughing very long, right. So there's things that you can do to be accommodating, to make the sex you know better or make it that you know the nut last longer type situation that can be taught.
Speaker 2:Did you have that conversation with him?
Speaker 4:Yeah, we did. I mean, it wasn't like I said, I still made it through. It wasn't no bad situation. I just knew in my mind not to expect no, you know no long kind of situation, hurry up and get mine before I get his, I guess, kind of situation. But I mean, outside of that he was a really good person, like I said, a really really good person at all the other kind of like core value kind of situations.
Speaker 2:Got you.
Speaker 4:Just that one. Thing. And I wasn't enough for him, so it wasn't happening With being poly?
Speaker 2:what are you looking for in a relationship long term?
Speaker 4:What it wasn't happening with being poly. What are you looking for in a relationship long term? What does that look like? So, um, that's like a long list of things that I could say that I'm looking for, right, well, not individually before.
Speaker 2:But like is the goal, to be married, is it?
Speaker 1:multiple people, or yeah, what does that look like? Is poly a phase, or is it like the rest of your?
Speaker 4:life Like like long term would be. I would say long term for me would probably be two girls and a guy, Because I don't have a thing where I'm like I want Like four of y'all.
Speaker 1:No, like three of us, four might be too many.
Speaker 4:people say though yeah, you, another girl and a guy yes I got you all three like that could be like a long-term situation understood.
Speaker 1:Yeah, well, I hope. I hope that works out for you. Is that for the love or the finances?
Speaker 4:I can't say. It's really like a finance kind of situation, more of. You're into both sexes that you need both, you like both, so you need both. I am into both sexes. I can't say that I need both. I can't say I need both, but I enjoy both.
Speaker 1:Which one you prefer. That's sticky. I'm not trying to get sticky. When things get sticky, I start asking questions.
Speaker 4:You do, you start asking some questions.
Speaker 1:That's sticky, because we listen and we don't judge.
Speaker 4:Say it again, Rob again just a little bit um oh shit I can say it's a long decision it is a long decision, right, because all right. When I say things I'm gonna say for me. I don't want to feel like I'm speaking for the people of whatever's happening. Right? So I'm going to say for me, right? At one point in my life I was saying, man, you can't beat having a real dick, right, you can't beat having real dick, right, you can't beat it. Like that was my point at one point in my life, like you just can't.
Speaker 4:But then I was introduced I was introduced to something a little different that kind of made me say, god dang, that that actually feels okay, like I can't. Even so I can't say which one I prefer. Um, I think it's more of just the connection I have with that person, I think, makes the difference.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm gonna go with a lesbian, then pop the truck I wasn't, I wasn't out.
Speaker 4:She used wait a minute.
Speaker 1:She went to the trunk on me, wait a minute hey, so she hit you with the, she hit you with the, she hit you with that thing.
Speaker 4:I'm not even gonna lie to you. It was good it was. It was a different kind of feel. It was good that's crazy.
Speaker 1:I think that she is you can hear the reminiscing.
Speaker 2:I hear it, I feel it you feel it back to the moment you feel it go hit? It back up? Ain't you put your phone down?
Speaker 4:stop texting yeah, that was a crazy little night. Yeah, so I don't know, it's gonna just really have to be connection of the person she said it right, she need both person with you.
Speaker 1:She said it right, yeah, I like it.
Speaker 4:Yeah, she said it right man, woman.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that crazy that the studs beating the one to pump chunk.
Speaker 2:Now she was a fan. Oh, she'll price. Okay now.
Speaker 1:I'm with you there. The fams, yes, okay, they with the shit too. I knocked the hell out of a film. I wouldn't do no stud, but I'd knock a film though. Quit, I'm with you there.
Speaker 4:No, yeah, it was a little different. Air five I'm with you, I'm with you there.
Speaker 2:Shit.
Speaker 1:Interesting. Well, you know what I'm finna go ahead. You know we appreciate you here. Glad we finally got everything working.
Speaker 4:I'm glad we got everything working with you. Yeah well, it's not working.
Speaker 1:Just next time you mess with one of them things, one of them ladies you make sure she put a rubber on that strap, though, okay.
Speaker 4:Oh, it was.
Speaker 3:She put one on for real.
Speaker 4:She took out the packaging. Yeah, she took out the packaging and put the rubber on there. I was like this is hurt man. Get on my God real phone.
Speaker 2:Hold on, that's a whole other conversation.
Speaker 1:I had to hang up on her ass man.
Speaker 4:Let me tell y'all something. Hey, for all y'all out there, all you films you asked for that shit fool I thought she was going to say no.
Speaker 1:Hey for all you film studs and people that want to use straps. You don't need no motherfucking rubber on that motherfucker. You asked for that shit fool. Hey, you can't catch nothing if it's fresh out the pack. Just throw it away and get another one. That's what the price is. When you went and can't got one, you gotta go buy one every time they like playing bees. Gotta buy one every time that might get expensive?
Speaker 2:I don't know.
Speaker 1:For a strap. Well, go go clean it then. But why you gotta go Put a rubber on?
Speaker 2:it, they put them in the dishwasher. That shit make me mad.
Speaker 1:Gotta make it seem real. I'm not trying to feel Funny or nothing, but that.
Speaker 2:I'm confused.
Speaker 1:But it ain't for me to know, yeah, I'm gonna say you ain't part of that world.
Speaker 1:It ain't for me to know, yeah, that's I know I, I ain't I time so I don't know why I don't know why they put a rubber strap when, when conception is the whole purpose, I have a child, but they can't. You know what? I'm not gonna do that right now. You can't run everybody man, stop this shit. I'm not right, I'm just saying. I'm just saying no, you know what, hold on, I'm gonna hit the cricket button on your way, hold on well, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey hey, stop roaring everybody, stop that shit. Hey, hey, hey.
Speaker 2:You're going to fuck up regular life.
Speaker 1:STDs all day is what they say, but I don't got none. I ain't Actually. You know what I got to tell you? Tell me, don't nobody else tell you, I love you too. Stop fucking season. No, let me ask you what last? Let me ask you something real shit. Raw dog season. Real shit. It's not a real thing, bro. What ain't a real thing?
Speaker 3:raw dog season.
Speaker 2:It's std season, it's a baby season I'm about to put that I'm gonna go on instagram. I mean, that's why I beat breakouts out here no, folks need to be careful.
Speaker 1:Real, because you said, I saw something on the news where it said my nashville's kind of starting to get a little. It's getting hot in here, so hot. So take off for real guys. I want to. You know, I know we did a thing a little different today. I definitely got another left on red that I wanted to go over. I wanted to go over another thing cap real quick for this week. It's DDG. Did you guys see what happened at Stream University? I seen like his brother got into it with somebody. Yeah, his brother put hands on somebody and he said his shit was garbage. He said it was garbage, garbage shit.
Speaker 3:I said or shit, shit, doo-doo, doo-doo garbage.
Speaker 1:DDG stands for doo-doo garbage Boy. I'll week.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Doodle garbage and the brother put hands.
Speaker 2:Did he brother.
Speaker 1:Put hands on the dude that said it, on the troll. Now, this is my thing. I don't know if y'all remember what happened years ago with OT Genesis. I had to look that shit up. Yeah, he was in there at the house. He went to his room, went to his room, yeah, and they beat the shit out of his ass. Now, hey, my thing is this you wasn't going to be tough, your brother wasn't tough when you was in that room with OT and them, but you played a role. I feel like he's the no-thing captain. You can't be a bully man. You should have just played it left. Man, you're supposed to be the bigger person. Keep it going. Who got whipped in? Ot? Dd, ddg did.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he said he got jumped though.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but DDG wasn't the person at the fight.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but it was just his brother. Right, it was his brother and somebody else.
Speaker 1:Yeah, somebody else there, the cameraman.
Speaker 2:Yeah, oh, that's who it was.
Speaker 1:So DDG wasn't even there, though. No, he was there, he wasn't in the fight, but he didn't. Yeah, he, he wasn't in the fight. He wasn't there when the fight happened.
Speaker 2:Correct. I mean man. One side for me is like trolls in person. You ain't behind a keyboard and screen Facts, so real life happens sometimes. But the other side is like grown men shouldn't be fighting over stupid-ass words.
Speaker 1:No, but I don't know. So did DDG get jumped at OT House? I didn't watch the video. I don't know if he got jumped, but niggas got to beating that ass though. Well, multiple niggas beat one nigga. Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's what he said. That's what he said.
Speaker 1:He got jumped. That's not really You're supposed to lose fighting multiple people. Did he fight back? Is the question. I don't know he might have went hold out. I don't know he might have got hold out. We talking about DDG, yeah, if he ain't fight back, he ain't fight them niggas back in LA. That nigga got hold out. That's the issue. He got hold out.
Speaker 2:Yeah, hold out.
Speaker 1:He's no thing cap for me. This week. I fight multiple. What I would say, though, for?
Speaker 2:DDG, like you got to talk to your, to the crew, brother, whoever with you, is it worth losing some money over Whether it's a dual suit or not or how it work out, but like don't just, we got to avoid those situations in public.
Speaker 1:It should never be worth it. Nah, never. When you got a bag that's like that's whether you're an artist in sports, somebody's got to have your back and understand.
Speaker 2:you can't do no dumb shit and fuck your money up Once you're getting the money, I don't care who don't like it.
Speaker 1:Who gives a fuck, and it was just where he intentionally provoked you, you to win.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he got y'all off, y'all square.
Speaker 1:I need to go say this shit so you can try to jump on me and I can see you. I need a bag If that's all it takes. That's all it takes.
Speaker 2:And if you're going to do it, make sure there's no camera.
Speaker 1:Yeah, beat his ass behind closed doors somewhere. That shit was weak as hell. I them niggas can't fight, they can't fight, they ain't got no hands. But I think it's weak Because you picking on Somebody. That's a simp, that's a regular ass man Out here Trolling. You wouldn't have did that If, if, if he sent, would have said that If some real nigga 21 Sacks Some nigga would have said that it wouldn't be no problem. But because it's a troll and a regular Y where everybody's streaming it for clout. That's the point, though.
Speaker 2:That's what they there for.
Speaker 1:They don't be around real niggas. They're not going to be around 50 Cent.
Speaker 2:That's not where they're going to be at, but you don't go to the little streamer event and get talked into fighting. You know what comes with what you do.
Speaker 1:It's two separate worlds.
Speaker 2:You know it's going to be some goofy, let the goofy go.
Speaker 1:We got one more. I just put it in there, no thinking cap the Left on Red. We're going to do another Left on Red. Y'all. We got a special treat for y'all. Y'all got two in one episode.
Speaker 3:And we're going to get this thing popping.
Speaker 2:I'm going to read this one. You're going to read this one. Left on red with Bucko.
Speaker 2:Hey guys, I'm in a situation where I feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me with the deacon at the church. Okay, recently she wanted me to start going to church more to try to have a relationship with her more spiritually. The deacon is maybe a few years older than me and I don't think I didn't think nothing of it at first, but I started to get a feeling where she was cheating on me when she would. I would always be at the church at bible study and she would always stay after, and her excuse was to get a better understanding of the word. Okay, I had to clean that up a little bit. A few days ago I come home from the barbershop and I see them in my living room with pillows on the ground and she was talking about they was praying and didn't want to hurt their knees and having a home session and waiting for me to come home. I feel like I was okay without the church before all this. Before all this, I confronted her and she swear it's all spiritual, nothing physical. Am I tripping hey?
Speaker 1:man, what the fuck? Hey, I just went to the water next door. Hey, yo, hold the fuck up. I'm sorry for cussing, hold on. Yeah, I'm finna. Talk to Deacon Bucko for a second. I'm finna, go to church, hold on, hold on. So you, I gotta read that again.
Speaker 1:So your girlfriend is cheating on you with the deacon of the church. She wanted to start going to church more to try to have a relationship with more spiritually. Nah, man, nah, nah, nah. Listen, she didn't want to go to church to get more spiritually inclined with the Lord. She wanted to go to church more to see her nigga mode Deacon Jones, deacon Jones, laying pipe on your goddamn lady. It was nothing to do with the word. God had nothing to do with what happened with the deacon and your lady. God had nothing to do with that.
Speaker 1:Let me tell you something. That man right there is putting hands on your lady and I'm talking about good hands like a barber In the worst way. They might not be worse for her, but for him maybe, because that's crazy. And then my thing is you come home, though this is the part that threw me though you telling me that you told you, telling us that you came home and they was on the floor with pillows like they're having a fucking slumber party. Y'all got hardwood floors, boy, she won't fuck. He didn't want to fuck them knees up, I ain't gonna deal with y'all got hardwood floors, boy. He didn't want to fuck them knees up, I ain't gonna deal with y'all man. So my take is he said I don't think I need the church here first. Nah, you probably don't think you need the church at all now. I would probably leave. I would probably.
Speaker 2:I don't know. I'm confused with Bible study we at the church. Why are we now at the house doing home session?
Speaker 1:yeah, I'm trying to figure out what somebody couldn't fuck at the church somebody. That was too far where, the, where, the, where the boundaries at oh yeah this. This is your woman, your relationship. He a man of god. If you almost made me say that, let me know. Hey, yo. Gio hey, man, where the boundaries at, as your woman, as your lady? Oh shit, where are the boundaries? There ain't no boundaries.
Speaker 2:It's a conversation that must be had.
Speaker 1:Must be had.
Speaker 2:You don't have a, I mean you didn't catch them in the act of anything. You didn't say they closed us off. So it's hard to say she is cheating.
Speaker 1:But you clearly have situations that bother you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you need to have a.
Speaker 1:Those situations should never happen.
Speaker 2:You need to have a real conversation of understanding and the boundary should it sounds like you to be.
Speaker 1:She has a church. Keep that at church there's a curfew, meaning she can't stay at church past a certain time. You want her at home with you. Say that. Why the hell is any man in your house without your knowledge?
Speaker 2:and if it's, if it's just about?
Speaker 1:I don't care who the spirituality.
Speaker 2:She should understand it shouldn't be a problem with boundaries if it goes somewhere else and she's like why are you mad? And this is what I'm, deacon jones, being deacon jones well that's why he had to get out that church deacon jones had to get out.
Speaker 1:That church now said god was watching him. How do you not know who's at your home? That's crazy, deacon jones playing with that cat. Mm-hmm, it's a lot of conversations that you should have Rubbing on that back. Mm-hmm, deacon Joe needs his ass whooped. I ain't gonna lie, if I come home, I got. I'm just picturing it. I want y'all to close your eyes with me for a quick second. Close your eyes and picture coming home from work on a Wednesday where niggas usually have Bible study on Wednesday. You come home from church and you see a nigga on the floor with his shoes off, with a Bible, on the floor with pillows. He didn't even say he saw a Bible. I'm just putting it all out there in perspective, with my eyes closed. I don't think no, bible's a present, hey. I don't think no, bible's a present, hey.
Speaker 3:I don't think no, bible's a present.
Speaker 1:I didn't hear no Bible's was there either. That's Raw Dog Season, right there for you. Y'all got carpet or hardwood floor.
Speaker 2:They have to have hardwoods you know what they're doing. They put the pillow down. Deacon Jones, praying her out her panties, man.
Speaker 1:Deacon Jones is hitting her with that word.
Speaker 2:That's crazy I feel bad.
Speaker 1:Hey, listen, bro, I gotta go back, I gotta figure out who you are, because I want to know, like, did you go back to the church? Like, what did you do? Because I want to whoop the pastor's ass, these your deacons what the pastor got going on. If the deacon at the church is acting like this I know the past to hell boy. I say let her go. I say let her go. Also, don't sound like you said anything to her about what you like, don't like expect, don't expect the boundary. Like, is she crossing boundaries that you already set? Like you already told her Don't have men or this man in your home. And she did it anyway. Like, bro, I don't expect no motherfucking at the church coming at my house. She, the way he just said it, the way she did it and the way she's doing it sounds like he don't never say shit.
Speaker 1:He said something, this damn time stand up, be a man, set your expectations for your home. Unless you don't run this shit, you go to church. If you don't run your home and she run it, that's what it sound like. What would you do If you saw somebody From the church In your house? I don't go to church, that's okay. That's even a. That's a better, god damn answer. I have questions then I'm trying to figure out. I like that don't make sense. But I also understand that church people are just regular people.
Speaker 2:They're regular fucking people.
Speaker 1:They pretend to be better than everybody else. They ain't better than me. I just don't act on it. I have my own relationship with God. I have my own Bible. I pray, read whatever I do, all the things that God needs me to do I don't go to church. Would you be a deacon? Would I be a deacon? Yeah, If that's what my purpose with life is.
Speaker 2:I don't think that's my purpose. Why is a young deacon making home visits? I'm trying to figure it out, I personally don't play with God like that. You didn't go over there to play with God. I know that's not my purpose, so I'm not going to put them shoes on.
Speaker 1:Pretend like I'm this, and then.
Speaker 2:Does he?
Speaker 1:deserve to be kicked out of the church as a deacon.
Speaker 2:I think he does, he ain't got no proof. If you prove it absolutely, he ain't got no proof.
Speaker 1:As of right now, all he's seen was pillows.
Speaker 2:God fuck.
Speaker 1:I don't even got Ain't no proof.
Speaker 2:If I come home I see pillows on the ground and two grown folks on the ground. I gotta whoop some ass. Do she normally pray with pillows? Maybe that's her normal routine?
Speaker 1:The only people I know that pray with pillows is the people that I don't know what religion they are, that pray with rugs. Okay, that's what you're talking about the prayer rugs. That's a rug Okay, my fault, it's cool, I got you. But that's a rug Okay, my fault, it's cool, I got you, but it's.
Speaker 3:I ain't never heard of a praying pillow.
Speaker 1:You gotta be a man, bro, like you know that I've heard. Okay, you put me on game With praying rugs. I ain't never heard Of no praying pillows.
Speaker 2:I ain't never seen.
Speaker 1:It's the only one thing I use a pillow for.
Speaker 2:When.
Speaker 1:I'm, it's on the ground.
Speaker 3:I ain't never seen.
Speaker 1:It's put underneath you and put on the you know what, but that they came up with that plot Before you got there. There you go they knew what the fuck they was gonna say hey, just in case he come home One day.
Speaker 2:We gonna say we're praying. We gonna say we're praying, you got home a little too early, oh.
Speaker 1:How often does he come To your house, bro?
Speaker 2:It's so many questions in this.
Speaker 1:It's a lot. It's a whole. I'm telling you. The ultimate thing for me is don't sound like you're handling your business. You ain't putting your foot down. There's a whole lot of shit that's going on in your life that you don't have no control over.
Speaker 2:They got a whole building where you go and get your spirituality. Now you got to get the home session.
Speaker 1:I mean fuck it in the church, Don't fuck it at home where I lay my head on. Do it in the pastor's room with the pillows, but don't come in my home. I think it's more disrespectful to fuck I think it's more Is the deacon single. Does he have a wife?
Speaker 2:The pastor put him out.
Speaker 3:That's what happened. Is the deacon single? Is it?
Speaker 1:a A single deacon. Is this a single deacon? Would it make it better? It would make it worse that you allowed this to even happen.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like I said, though, they regular people, so church don't change. This man is in my house.
Speaker 1:This is a man. I wouldn't give a damn if he was a man. I wouldn't care if he was a man of the Lord.
Speaker 2:It sounds like he's single and it sounds like you think she you believe that shit. You were already on the side she is, so it's hard to say she's not. But I ain't saying what level you can take it to.
Speaker 1:But you got to set that boundary. If he ain't single and he married, go fuck his wife.
Speaker 3:Oh shit.
Speaker 1:Go fuck the deaconess, go give the deaconess some D. You heard me.
Speaker 2:That's crazy and church folks be the freakiest ones. They be the freakiest ladies, but she crazy too. I come to church with me, so I can see it yeah, yeah. Then I'm going to bring them home anyway.
Speaker 1:They was in the pool pit getting in. Pastor seen the ass in the pool pit. They seen him wading in the water for real.
Speaker 2:Got to do it too much.
Speaker 1:Yeah, my thing is that is, bro, I'm not going to pray for you because you probably don't believe in prayer. No more, not a deacon a deal we did. But I do hope that you get to the bottom of that. You didn't get like Robinson. Get your home in order and figure that out.
Speaker 2:That's my take. You didn't the man been in your house, you've been in the church. You could tell both of them together hey, this is unacceptable. So that way he knows. So if it happened again, then you know what's up, because you didn't just tell her you told my brother, you told him.
Speaker 1:So if for some reason you come back over here, that means you can put hands on him next time.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:You want to put hands on her?
Speaker 1:I'm sitting here putting hands on her. Because if Deacon still come over. If Deacon still come over you. The reason why I came over, brother, the reason why I came over this time the missus told me that y'all had a refrigerator that was out. Oh, now you a mechanic. Now you fixing shit, now you a handyman. Nah, dk, hold up. They, some freaky folks in the church man do wrong shit. I mean they people.
Speaker 2:They are Regular people.
Speaker 1:They people bro With a title. That's it. With a God ain't ask me to be. No, I could see he was a good deacon.
Speaker 3:Deacon Rob ski, not right now I Was.
Speaker 1:You know. I was wondering what grandfather was a pastor. It ain't for me. I always thought I could do a good job with it. You know, you too, Wow bro I always wanted to touch people a different way. I Still got a foul mouth. Yeah, I'd be what they call it dude. Yeah, I be what they call the dude on the custom.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I will put my hands on different people every day at the church. Know what I'm saying. You the deacon, you, deacon Jones, deacon Buck up, you the deacon, you the deacon Guys, I want to go ahead. Can we get? Whew, we at the mark. Can we get, we at the mark, can we get last remarks, please, any remarks. Today was a wild ride. It was, it was, but we learned a lot.
Speaker 2:I mean, check on your people, that's what. Check on your people, talk to your kids, that's what I'm going. Check on your people, talk to your kids, that's what I'm going to take from this. We got the college kid.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:We got Rob's story, your story. Yeah, understand your kids seeing more than you think they seeing.
Speaker 1:Kind of too. What I said earlier was men, we don't speak about our feelings and our emotions. We don't communicate as much or as deeply as we should.
Speaker 2:Absolutely.
Speaker 1:Like my story. I kept that bottled in for a long time before I felt comfortable enough to tell someone else. That was deep, for a long time before I felt comfortable enough to tell someone else. And I would do. I'm here for you. Appreciate it For real. Just don't tell me goodnight.
Speaker 2:Hey man, I'm TikTok, funny as hell.
Speaker 1:Somebody doesn't mean you. That shit is stupid. I won't tell you goodnight.
Speaker 1:I got you my take, my take. It's short and simple understand that people aren't who they say they are. All the time in front of you need to, and I like and I like that what you said about the actions and golf actions. A bid, you're lost, you know, don't, don't. Yes, and I think that might be the title, because I tell you what people will portray themselves one way, but, holistically, they ain't who they say they are. Um, you know, I think, even from your story, I think even from this whole episode, people say they want one thing or act one way. They do something totally different, so something totally different. So watch the people around you that say they love you. If they ain't showing it, they don't love your ass, man. Watch the people that say they're going to be there for you. If they ain't for you, they ain't calling, checking in on you, they don't fuck with you for real. Stop waiting for people who say they ain't going to fuck with you and say they support you, to support you right now, on the ground level.
Speaker 2:That's my take yeah, actions are always going to speak louder than words, and love is definitely an action pt, ptsd is real.
Speaker 1:Some of y'all need help go get help. I just say blink, twice, blink twice if you need it.
Speaker 2:That's what you needed. Some of y'all need help.
Speaker 1:I'm glad you got hey, listen that story boy, we need a goddamn camera. Because, boy, I need it Because let me tell you what. I've been looking at you the whole time. That shit touched me for real. You a survivor man, like for real. For.
Speaker 2:No listen.
Speaker 1:I was going to hit the button. It's a little button right here, hey y'all, For all y'all people that don't know it's a button and the button makes a noise. And what was going to happen is Rob was going to say yeah, she touched me on the dog, right? And I had to do it right because I didn't want her to put it in me, right, I was waiting to use that for your story. Yeah, nah, she didn't do no sodomizing, she didn't do no crazy shit like that. No, I would hope not.
Speaker 3:I would hope not.
Speaker 1:She just wanted meat over and over again. Rip to Lucille. But what you was going to say, mike, hey, man, tell him.
Speaker 2:He's trying to run, bro. Die Apollo Cole, that bad shit. Hey, I was just trying to run bro.
Speaker 1:Diabolical.
Speaker 3:That bad scene he was, hey, listen.
Speaker 1:One more, one more, one more, one more.
Speaker 3:One more joke I couldn't get away. Rob One more joke. Hey, it's funny. Now you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:I'm beyond that I'm beyond that, bro. It ain't funny, cause it really it ain't, but it is, but it ain't, rob. You said he was in the. You said he was in the bathroom. She picked him up, bro. She picked him up.
Speaker 3:That grown ass woman Picked a lock in the house and gets my nigga. You just imagine yourself. That's like a scary movie man Sitting on the toilet Looking at.
Speaker 1:Looking at the door handle and the doorknob. She on the back here, she on the other side Talking about you. Just go ahead, let me in here now, damn it.
Speaker 2:You sitting there, terrified, you really scared. I'm telling you, bro, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm done, like Freddie coming to get you.
Speaker 1:Dick tie, dick tie. I don't want no more man.
Speaker 2:Leave me alone.
Speaker 1:I can hear you saying it now oh man, we made this work. We made this work and I appreciate y'all. I know we had technical difficulties, but it was a damn good time and I appreciate y'all so goddamn much man.
Speaker 2:It's always fun catching up man.
Speaker 1:Oh, we back in two weeks for the Father's Day episode. We listen and we don't judge. Just a little bit hey man, it's your boy, DJ Bucko. This was another no cap. My rap podcast With my boy Rob Ski and OG Mike no cap.